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♥ 10 ways to LOVE ♥

 

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  1. LISTEN without interrupting. (Proverbs 18)

  2. SPEAK without accusing. (James 1:19)

  3. GIVE without sparing. (Proverbs 21:26)

  4. PRAY without ceasing. (Colossians 1:9)

  5. ANSWER without arguing. (Proverbs 17:1)

  6. SHARE without pretending. (Ephesians 4:15)

  7. ENJOY without complaint. ( Philippians 2:14)

  8. TRUST without wavering. (1 Corinthians 13:7)

  9. FORGIVE without punishment. (Colossians 3: 13)

  10. PROMISE without forgetting. (Proverbs 13:12)


     Couples love & support one another! For Healthy Marriages

     

Message For Men

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Be Encouraged....


Remember the supernatural way in which you were created— from dirt and made in the image of God.

For married men: Love your wives. Protect your families. YOU ARE the head. YOU ARE the leader. YOU ARE to be submitted to. Build with them. Grow with them. Teach them the principles that will give them everlasting life.

For single men: Hold fast to the promise that your inheritance is on the way. “She” is on Her way. She’s still being shaped and molded and tried true, for YOU. Singleness is not an unfortunate state, it is an opportunity to be selfish and internally clean house.

Understand your strength and worth as protectors and providers. You are Kings that come from a very long line of royalty. Use your gifts to prosper. Your gift is your meal ticket.

Trust God. He has already made you the victor

Triangle of LOVE

 

See the Dots is your marriage all connected?

Or is there an opening where the LACK of LOVE is able to EXIST?

 

When two people love each other truly a connection is formed between them that not only survives death, but continues to grow deeper and happier forever. The Lord provides completely healthy/happy marriages to everyone in heaven who desires it.

 

 


Marcus & Gloria Whyte23, are a husband & wife team, proud parents of (2) children. Freelance writers, Certified Life and Relationship Coaches from Akron, Ohio. Founders of http://forhealthymarriages.ning.com/ whose purpose is to re-engage and educate couples on the benefits of a healthy marriage. Follow them on Facebook page: http://bit.ly/aWv6YE

Every Good Man..Father..Son... & Brother...

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To be your father is the greatest honor I have ever received. It allowed me to touch mystery for a moment, and to see my LOVE made flesh. If I could have but one prayer, it would be for you to pass that LOVE along. After all, there is not much more to LIFE than that.

It is my attempt to give you the lessons of my life, so that you can use them in yours. They are not meant to make you into me. It is my greatest joy to watch you become yourself. But time reveals truths, and these truths are greater than either of us. If I can give them voice in a way that allows me to walk beside you during your days, then I will have done Well.

The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother. ~Theodore Hesburgh

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My Fist is bigger because it will:

F..ight for you

A...ffirm you

T...rain you

H...old you

E..ncourage and 

R..aise you!

 

Marcus Whyte23, is a husband and father of 2, freelance writer, Certified Life and Relationship Coach from Akron, Ohio. Along with his wife of 24 years are the Founders of For Healthy Marriages,  whose purpose is to re-engage and educate couples on the benefits of a healthy marriage. Follow him on Facebook page or  Find out more about him at http://whyte23.blogspot.com/ or Twitter @whyte23.

Finding Consistency



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(Deven and Kimberly Shakur)

Talk to your husband or wife about making a “need to improve” list for your marriage. We all have busy lives and our marriages can be put on the back burner if we are not careful. Talk about the things you both would like to see become more consistent in your marriage. Be grace filled in your sharing, understanding that your spouse may know these things need to change, but does not want to feel like they are being chastised. The last you thing you want the list to become is simply you pointing out where you think your spouse has failed. To keep this from happening, talk about how you would like to serve your spouse better to help them develop in the areas they need to grow. Then share the things you would like to be more consistent. Pray with your spouse over the list and talk about practical ways to make these changes.

Finding consistency through God’s plan for your life and marriage will bring you a closeness and intimacy you have been searching for. With God and your spouse. Consistently serving your spouse and loving them the way God has designed in Ephesians 5, is not always easy, but God will bless you in your consistency and obedience to His word for marriage.

We would love to hear your thoughts on consistency and the one flesh journey....

Marcus & Gloria Whyte23, are a husband & wife team, proud parents of (2) children. Freelance writers, Certified Life and Relationship Coaches from Akron, Ohio. Founders of http://forhealthymarriages.ning.com/ whose purpose is to re-engage and educate couples on the benefits of a healthy marriage. Follow them on Facebook page: http://bit.ly/aWv6YE

LeBron James Is Engaged

LeBron James Is Engaged

LeBron James and Savannah Brinson

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LeBron James had more on his mind than just ringing in the new year on Saturday night. 
At a New Year's Evedinner and party at the Shelborne hotel in South Beach, theMiami Heat star, 27, proposed to his longtime girlfriend Savannah Brinson. And he got their kids in on the action as well. 

Right after popping the question, James picked up the couple's sons LeBron Jr., 7, and Bryce, 4, and swung them around on the floor. "It was so sweet to watch," a rep for Remy Martin V, who hosted the dinner, tells PEOPLE. "Everyone is extremely happy." 

The party, hosted by Heat teammate Dwyane Wade and his girlfriend Gabrielle Union, was also a belated birthday celebration for James, who turned 27 the day before. 

Heat star Chris Bosh and Queen Latifah were also on the guest list of 60 friends and family members. 

"When it happens, it happens," Brinson, 25, told Harper's Bazaar of marriage in 2010. "If we do it, I want it to be forever."

A message from :For Healthy Marriages

 

Let's set aside our differences concerning Basketball Life for a second...

Maybe just maybe changing location was the best move for Him in more ways than one.
Chris Paul wed his long-time sweetheart and mother of his cute little son, Jada Crawley this pass Oct 12 2011. Anthony and La La were married on July 10, 2010. Dwyane Wade handling his business of being a single dad raising two sons. Growing up without a father in his life, lessons of parenting, promoting the concept of family through his Wade’s World Foundation, President Obama asking him to become an ambassador-at-large for fatherhood.

Surrounding yourself with positive (not prefect) people, may influence you to look or change your prospective ...concerning marriage. Marriage is not a bad thing but, Mama's Drama is... Let's ROOOOT for this engagement prayerfully the soon to be Mr. & Mrs. James (Savannah Brinson) will be successfully. After all look to see who's mentoring/counseling/influencing your marriage/relationships.

Follow US as WE follow Christ and together we will change the world! Have a prosperous day :-)

 

 

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Husband and Wife for Life

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Along racial lines, the statistics varied greatly: In 1960, 74% of whites were wed. Today 55% are married. Among blacks 31% are married; in 1960, 61% reported being hitched. For Hispanics, 48% are married today, compared with 72% in 1960. http://bit.ly/ry0Byi

This article makes us want to continue to grind-harder For Healthy Marriages… keep praying to our married couples to get or continual receiving the help to strengthen their MARRIAGES! Remove the “GRAY” area’s in your relationship. It’s not always Easy, but we know it’s Necessary. Commissioned, Ordinary Just Won’t Do.. Share this LINK.. If, you’re moving forward together !

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With Love And Gratitude,
Marcus & Gloria

 

 


Marcus & Gloria Whyte23, are a husband & wife team, proud parents of (2) children. Freelance writers, Certified Life and Relationship Coaches from Akron, Ohio. Founders of http://forhealthymarriages.ning.com/ whose purpose is to re-engage and educate couples on the benefits of a healthy marriage. Follow them on Facebook page: http://bit.ly/aWv6YE

 

To Forgive...To LIVE!

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Dear Auntie Deborah,

The Noble Peace Prize was just awarded to (3) Three Wonderful & Outstanding women of our day. I would like to add you because of the fight you fought to the List as the Fourth. You have shown us over the past 35+ years living with LUPUS, http://www.lupus.org/, how you can maintain both strength & faith to not just live one day at a time, but to make every hour your very best. You taught me through how you handled adversity to not allow others to turn their wrong doings towards you into hatred towards them. I learned from you that hatred will stop you from growing, loving, caring & living etc...(which does not mean that it's not going to hurt like H*ll) but, it will show that you can and will survive. You've shown that Forgiveness is the best cure for living a full/healthy life, even when you felt that the reality that you were dealt was a Bad Hand. You shared with me that God teaches us this in 2 Thess 1:5-7 NIV 5 "All this is evidence that God’s judgment is right, and as a result you will be counted worthy of the kingdom of God, for which you are suffering. 6 God is just: He will pay back trouble to those who trouble you 7 and give relief to you who are troubled, and to us as well". These are scriptures I've study for understanding...as to why they meant so much to you! On October 8th, 2011, you told the LORD that you were ready to come home on YOUR 59th Birthday.

Thank you for sharing your LOVE for me & with me.

Your Favorite Nephew Marcus.